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Did you know?

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Did you know?

• An estimated 17 million people in the United States have attention deficit disorder.
• It is the single most common learning and behavior disorder in children.
• It is almost one of the most common problems in adults, leading to job failures, relationship breakups, loneliness, drug abuse and a sense of underachievement.

Schedule a complimentary consultation with Aimee Rhoden, Professional Counselor at The Winchester Institute at 614.760.5555 to discuss any concerns or questions you might have about ADHD.

A drug free approach for treating ADHD and ADD

Thursday, September 1st, 2011

Professional Counselor. Aimee Rhoden and Dr. Snyd will be holding an educational seminar highlighting ADHD and ADD at The Winchester Institute. Learn about diagnosis, behavioral treatments and dietary treatments for ADHD and ADD.

Call The Winchester Institute at 614.760.5555 to register for the seminar on Tuesday, September, 20 2011 at 7:00 pm.

ADHD and School

Friday, August 26th, 2011

Helping a child with ADD / ADHD get homework done and turned in on time

• Pick a specific time and place for homework that is as free as possible of clutter, pets, and television.
• Allow the child breaks as often as every ten to twenty minutes.
• Teach a better understanding of the passage of time: use an analog clock and timers to monitor homework efficiency.
• Establish a place in his/her classroom where the student can easily find his or her finished homework and pick an appropriate and consistent time to hand in work to the teacher (helpguide.com)

Aimee Rhoden, Professional Counselor at The Winchester Institute can help you or your child learn new behavior patterns to help them succeed at school. To schedule a complimentary consultation call 614.760.5555.

Depression

Monday, November 8th, 2010

Basic Facts About Clinical Depression:

Clinical depression is one of the most common mental illnesses, affecting more than 19 million Americans each year. This includes major depressive disorder, manic depression and dysthymia, a milder, longer-lasting form of depression.

Depression causes people to lose pleasure from daily life, can complicate other medical conditions, and can even be serious enough to lead to suicide.

Depression can occur to anyone, at any age, and to people of any race or ethnic group.  Depression is never a “normal” part of life, no matter what your age, gender or health situation.

Unfortunately, though treatment for depression is almost always successful, fewer than half of those suffering from this illness seek treatment. Too many people resist treatment because they believe depression isn’t serious, that they can treat it themselves or that it is a personal weakness rather than a serious medical illness

Treatments for Clinical Depression:

Clinical depression is very treatable, with more than 80% of those who seek treatment-showing improvement. The choice of treatment depends on the pattern, severity, persistence of depressive symptoms and the history of the illness.  As with many illnesses, early treatment is more effective and helps prevent the likelihood of serious recurrences.

Symptoms of Clinical Depression:

* Persistent sad, anxious or “empty” mood

* Sleeping too much or too little, middle of the night or early morning waking

* Reduced appetite and weight loss, or increased appetite and weight gain

* Loss of pleasure and interest in activities once enjoyed, including sex

* Restlessness, irritability

* Persistent physical symptoms that do not respond to treatment (such as chronic pain

or digestive disorders)

* Difficulty concentrating, remembering or making decisions

* Fatigue or loss of energy

* Feeling guilty, hopeless or worthless

* Thoughts of suicide or death

Causes of Clinical Depression:

Many things can contribute to clinical depression.  For some people, a number of factors seem to be involved, while for others a single factor can cause the illness.  Oftentimes, people become depressed for no apparent reason.

If you or someone you know is suffering from depression contact Aimee Rhoden, Licensed Professional Counselor at The Winchester Institute of Chiropractic Health and Wellness.

Back-to-School-itis” Anyone?

Friday, August 20th, 2010

For some kids, going back to school at the end of a long lazy summer can be traumatic. Anticipating a new teacher, classmates, grade, or school can trigger fear, anxiety, and depression – not to mention very real physical symptoms such as stomachaches, headaches, and insomnia. Fortunately, children have a whole toolbox to draw from… in their imagination. Here are six imagination tools parents can use with children to relieve “back-to-school-itis.”

Balloon Breathe. With her hands around her navel, have her breathe slowly and deeply into her lower belly so it presses into her hands like an inflating balloon. The Balloon Breath has dramatic calming effects and facilitates a waking state of focused concentration and receptivity to positive suggestions. This one tool makes all the other ones easier.

Visit a Special Place. This is a safe private place within your child’s inner world where he can work out problems or take a mini-vacation from stress and worry. He can invite a wise Animal Friend into his sanctuary to talk to and help him, or he can even dig for a treasure box there that contains the antidote to his fear.

Draw the Fear. Putting an image on paper: (1) makes her fear of separation realer and less frightening than keeping it inside, and (2) makes her fear less likely to grow because there is a concrete picture to work with. Once she has a picture, she can talk to it, find out why it’s trying to scare her, strike a bargain with it, surround it with a soothing color bubble, and so on.

Talk to the Symptom. When a child suffers from a worry headache or stomachache, these three questions can help eliminate the pain. Have him do deep balloon breathing (diaphragmatic breathing), then ask: (1) What color is it? (2) What shape is it? (3) How heavy is it? After more breaths, ask him again. Continue to breathe and question in rounds. His pain will likely change or disappear. If it doesn’t completely go away, ask the ache what it wants him to know, do, or understand to release any more bits of pain.

Picture the Future. Artwork is also an effective starting point when you’re working with clear end-goals, like getting a good night’s sleep or reducing a back-to-school fear. Have your child create two drawings-how things are now and how she’d like them to be. Hang the picture in her bedroom; this is a great reminder of her desired goal and the first step toward getting there.

Encourage Drama. For kids whose nature tends toward drama, acting out their “first day of class” worries and troubles is a wonderful way to release them. Let them play it out-with puppets, with their bodies, with anything their imagination suggests. It’s amazing what creative solutions come up when given free reign.

Written by Charlotte Reznick, PhD

Presented by Aimee N. Rhoden MSEd., LPC at The Winchester Institute of Chiropractic Health and Wellness

The Stages of Change: Understanding Your Motivation

Tuesday, June 29th, 2010

Overview

People often expect to make changes in their lives quickly. “I’ll go to the gym five times a week,” they say, or “It’s no big deal to cut out sugar.” And then reality hits, the fatigue sets in and the cookies start calling from the cupboards. Whether it’s starting a new exercise program, learning communication skills or a career transition, understanding how change works can help you find and maintain your motivation.

Six Stages of Change

According to University of Rhode Island researchers James Prochaska and Carlo DiClemente, there are six stages of change: pre-contemplation is the mindset before you even think about making a change; contemplation is the stage in which you start to think about making a change; preparation is the stage during which you start to get ready for a change; action is when you are in the midst of changing; maintenance is remaining consistent with your new behaviors; and relapse (which people tend not to realize is one of the stages of change) is falling back on former behaviors.

Planning for Change

To best set yourself up for lasting change, there are several things for which you can plan. Gathering resources and information about the change you want to incur can put you on the path to success. Asking yourself what in your life will need to look different and what are the specific steps you need to reach your goal will help as well. Getting really detailed and breaking your goal into the smallest objectives possible is a great way to ensure being less overwhelmed with the process.

Stage Shifting

Once you figure out where you are in the stages of change, think about what you might need to transition from one stage to the other. Maybe you’ve been exercising with regularity, but the flu set you back two weeks so your new habit has suffered a setback. How will you get yourself back to your regimen? Taking a step back and an objective assessment of where you are can help you refocus on what you need to budge. It doesn’t have to be a big thing that gets you going, because solid change usually comes from a gradual process.

Relapse

It is completely normal to lapse into former behaviors. If you notice that you’ve slipped, instead of beating yourself up, consider relapse as an opportunity to examine what helped you succeed and what were your blockades. Coming up with a new plan to address obstacles, whether they are old or new, may give you the adjustment you need to dive back into your new behavior.

Support

Rarely do people make it through changes without support. Look at the people, institutions and environments in which you interact and ask yourself, which are helpful and which may be detrimental to you. Setting your sights on positive influences and asking for help will assist you in your new behaviors. No doubt, if you have the bug, you can do it alone; but why struggle when there are likely many people just like you with whom you can share the efforts of the challenge and the celebrations of success?

Written by Dania Sacks March

She has a master’s degree in public health and a master’s in social work from the University of Michigan as well as a pupil and personnel services credential in school social work from San Francisco State University.

Consider contacting Aimee Rhoden, Licensed Professional Counselor at The Winchester Institute of Chiropractic Health and Wellness, for individual counseling to help you achieve your goals and make positive changes in your life.

Learning How To Make Yourself Heard

Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010

Presented by Aimee Rhoden, Licensed Professional Counselor at the Winchester Institute of Chiropractic Health and Wellness

from the American Counseling Association sponsored by the ACA Foundation

When we were young most of us were told to “speak up,” to “say what’s on your mind,” and to “tell us what you think.” But many of us find that advice hard to follow as we mature. Instead, we hold our silence and end up feeling frustrated or embarrassed because we didn’t express what we really felt or believed.

Speaking up can and should be a positive experience.  Done correctly it demonstrates our willingness to share our experiences, perspectives and suggestions. And while speaking up may sometimes bring a negative reaction, it still can leave us feeling satisfied by knowing that we shared what we believe to be right or helpful.

If you find it hard to express your thoughts, some simple principles might make it easier to speak your mind.

The first one is simply to be courageous. We often don’t speak out simply because of self-doubt. It may have us fearing that what we have to say will be resisted, or rejected, or might even bring retaliation. Those are all very real fears, but giving into them will leave you feeling powerless and frustrated.

Instead, acknowledge your self-doubt and fears, then step up and be courageous enough to express yourself. Often you’ll find that there really was no basis for that self-doubt, and even when your words bring a negative reaction, you’ll still feel good for having had the courage to have made your views known.

Along with being courageous it’s important to be respectful.  Rather than just speaking out, first take the time to listen. When you do speak you want to show that you understand and respect the views and values of others before expressing your own. Your intention is not to convince others, but rather to express the differences that you’re feeling. Acknowledge that what others are feeling and believing also has legitimacy.

Finally, speaking out successfully requires you to be decisive. Speaking up is your decision to voice your convictions without being preoccupied with the outcome. You can be polite and respectful of others, while still being clear about what you feel and believe.

It takes time and practice to get used to speaking up and expressing your views, but it’s worth the effort. Your goal is not to always get your way or force your views on others, but rather to share what you truly think and feel. Speaking up is an important part of sharing and participating in the human experience.



Don’t Let Change Keep You Down

Tuesday, June 1st, 2010

From the American Counseling Association sponsored by the ACA foundation:

The country seemed to respond positively to the call for “change” that we heard from both major parties in the recent presidential campaign. But when change comes to our personal lives, most of us find it a cause for stress and anxiety.
That’s not surprising. Even when we’re not totally happy with the status quo, it may seem safe and comfortable compared to the unknowns that transitions bring.
But learning to handle change is important in today’s world. Change can happen to any of us at any time. It might be the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or job or financial changes brought on by today’s economy.
A first step in handling change is accepting that while it may bring stress and anxiety, it doesn’t always bring negative results. Expand your horizons. The end of a relationship may actually be an opportunity for someone new and more exciting to enter your life. The loss of a job may be the chance to head in a new, more rewarding career direction. Seeing change as a possible opportunity rather than a major loss will have you heading in a positive direction.
And you don’t need to do it all alone. An important transition can leave you feeling overwhelmed, confused, or depressed. That’s when friends or family members willing to listen in a safe, non-judgmental way can help. They may not have ready answers, but just talking things through can give you a new perspective and let you see situations differently.
It’s also vital to take care of yourself when facing change. Eating healthy, exercising regularly and maintaining a normal schedule can all help reduce the stress of change. Don’t look to drugs or alcohol as places to hide from reality.
Any major change requires time to think and adjust. While change can happen in seconds, accepting that change takes much longer. Give yourself that time. And while doing so, remember the positive, stable things still in your life. Make a list of family, friends, and things you enjoy, and you’ll find that there’s much that hasn’t changed at all.
It’s said that every time one door closes, another door opens. You can let change simply overwhelm you, or you can make the effort and take the time to see what new directions and new possibilities just might be waiting. Approach change as a positive experience and you just may find it is.

The Winchester Institute | Wellness Blog

Saturday, December 12th, 2009

Welcome to the new Winchester Institute Blog dedicated to wellness. Stay tuned for more exciting news in the days ahead.